Why You Need To Be"ALWAYS BE YOU"?

I know some of you after reading the title must be wondering what is so difficult about being oneself. Whereas some must be like is it even a topic to talk about. What crap!! Well on the other side is a person on the lookout for some inspiration to encourage them to just be themselves. Trust me it’s very difficult to realize it and you’ve already won half the battle if you’ve already analysed the need to be yourself. For the rest who are still wondering if they need help or not, I would like you all to go ahead reading and evaluate yourself where do you stand.

Being yourself is a very bold trait I must say and is very rare to spot. I wanna tell you the top ten benefits of “ALWAYS BE YOU” or rather I must say being yourself. Let’s start. Here we go.

1.       OPTIMISM: When you’re yourself you are fully aware that it is your life and it totally depends on  how you decide to live it. A sense of positivity flourishes your life and you live for yourself. Mind you that’s not at all selfish. You learn to find silver lining in  the rejections you face in your life. You become a better person altogether.

2.       CONFIDENCE: Staying true to yourself will give you immense confidence. Oozing confidence can help you climb the ladder of success faster than you even know. It always pays off. It’s like feathers to your personality.

3.       STRESS-FREE: Being judged by fellow people has become one of the major stress in the everyday world. And being yourself is an amazing antidote I must say because you no longer have the fear of being judged as in “what they’ll say?”. It makes living life much more happening. And you definitely breathe better.

4.       STRONG PERSONALITY: Now that you know yourself and are true. People may look upto you for inspiration coz it is very difficult and a rare trait to be. On one hand youre bold enough to tell people the truth to their stark face and on the other the kindness of your heart can win the world.

5.       HAPPINESS: You don’t care what others say and believe in the idea of your happiness. Your motto is “got a life make it large” and fill it with beautiful encapsulating moments. Your happiness is in your hands. You are the designer of your happiness.

6.       NEVER GIVE UP ATTITUDE: Rejection wont bother you as youre determined towards achieving your goals as long as you believe in them. You are surely to experience a heart full of strong desire to win.

7.       BETTER RELATIONSHIPS: Being yourself makes it so easy for you to be in a relationship with your parents, spouse, children and lets not forget our dear colleagues. It becomes so much more easier for them to un derstand us, our beliefs, our sentiments and our personality as a whole. On your part if youre yourself you can make others happy not just deliberately but because youre also happy. It leads to less fights and anxieties.

8.       NOT A PEOPLE PLEASER ANYMORE: Once you start being yourself youll stop pleasing people and instead its their turn to show if they really are meant for you as now youre actually yourself. I would suggest drift away from such people who don’t like you when youre yourself coz they aren’t the perfect people you need. Here I must say you deserve better, just don’t run after them. No one should stop you from being your best. Being sincere to yourself can help you identify the right people for you. They’ll respect you and like you like never before.

9.       SELF-ANALYST: You got the power to spot your weakness, insecurities and shortcomings and readily work towards it in turning it into one of your many strengths.

10.   SELF WORTH- This is one of the most important point. When you are true to yourself and don’t have to imitate and be anyone else, it tends to increase the respect for yourself to a completely different level. That’s an amazing feeling of ecstasy you may experience.  When you look yourself in the mirror youre definitely gonna pass a smile to your companion on the other side. It is then you will realize what a wonderful favour you have done to yourself by being yourself. And there should be no turning back.

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